NEW DECADE - NEW ME
2019 was no easy year but hopefully you've come out of it stronger. Our biggest theme at the beginning of 2019 was self-love. We wanted you to realize that putting yourself first is absolutely necessary to being full enough to be of value to others. And almost every Hairoscope we put out during this last year has been to try to encourage you to include yourself in your concept of health, love, wealth and every other aspect of your life. If your kindness doesn't include you - it's not complete. For 2020 the big theme for us is going to be to let go of judgement. Stop allowing other people's judgements to define you or to put you in a box. Stop judging others without having full context of their situation. And stop judging yourself. Care less about what other people think you're doing and do what you feel in your heart to be right. As for astrology in 2020, there will be more retrogrades to contend with but you'll weather the storm if you let your intuition and core values be your guide.
your 2020 theme: taking your power back
Before you let someone throw you off your game, learn to take a breath and remember that YOU decide how you react. Blaming someone else for our unhappiness is as disempowering as depending on someone for our happiness. And we ain't about that life. It's normal to have an emotional response to challenges and judgement but work with your triggers and develop new tools and systems for making sure that nobody is pulling the strings on your feelings but you.
your 2020 theme: be kinder to yourself
How often do you fixate on a mistake or a perceived flaw in yourself? Probably a few times a day. The fear of being awful isn't going anywhere and it can drive us to be better. But you know what else motivates and develops people? Support and encouragement. Be patient with yourself. Positive self-talk is a major vibe and I challenge you to rethink the way you speak to yourself throughout your day. Would you be this hard on someone else? Is it helpful? Be kind to yourself first.
your 2020 theme: focus on your talents
It's okay to be obsessed with growth. I love working on my weaknesses but the truth is that the greatest among us also focus the majority of their energy making their strengths even stronger. Beyonce didn't worry about her golf game: she put all of her energy into making her innate gift even BETTER. That's what I want you to do this year. Remember what you're good at and put some time and energy into that. As for your flaws? No one is perfect and that's why no one else on earth is you. Embrace it.
your 2020 theme: revamp your identity
You've probably had the same idea about who you are since you were young. But who you are is constantly changing. I used to think of myself as someone who didn't take risks, but looking over my life over the past 10 years - nothing could be further from the truth! Many of us are still living with the old story of who other's told us we were. It's time to rethink your core identity. Don't just let your past beliefs carry over into the new year (or the new decade)! Look at who you've become and redefine your identity for yourself. Self awareness is key and you deserve to see yourself in the light of who you've become and not who you were
your 2020 theme: streamline and simplify
Life is messy and it seems like every week we have new info, new challenges and new reasons to be overwhelmed. 2020 is a year for you to streamline your life. Make time to think about how you can simplify at least one aspect of your life once a week. Consolidate your credit cards, unsubscribe from email lists you don't love, organize your cabinets and get rid of clutter etc. It can be 20 minutes or an hour, but the goal is to make life simpler. I promise you, your 2021 self will thank you!.
your 2020 them: have a laugh
You enjoy a good laugh and love making others smile but you may have let 2019 trick you into believing you don't have time for fun and games. Trust us - life is meant to be fun! We believe in taking care of business in a big way and we never miss a deadline but that doesn't mean never taking some time to enjoy life. Have more fun at work, have more fun in life. And know that when you take time for yourself you come back to your obligations refreshed and ready to kill the game
your 2020 theme: keep promises to yourself
Self esteem is a pretty tough nut to crack. When it comes to how we view ourselves the best hack I can give you is to keep promises to yourself. What I mean by that is that every time you say you're going to do something you don't really want to do (like get up an hour earlier to go to the gym) and you do that thing - you build a type of self respect and discipline that makes you proud of yourself. And you also create habits that are ultimately good for you AND for your self-esteem.
your 2020 theme: learn something new
When is the last time you learned a new skill? When's the last time you read a non-fiction book for fun? School can drag us across the coals of our curiosity and deaden our desire to learn more but most of us have some subjects we are passionately interested in that we've never really explored. Want to learn more about physics? You can! Don't forget that the internet is here for more than memes, online shopping and cat videos. We live in a time where we can learn almost anything instantly! What are you gonna do about it?